So, I'm just predicting. But I think this is it. I'm coming to my ending point. Kevin and I keep fighting about the same thing over and over. He does or says something that offends me and is disrespectful. Then he will tell me I have no reason to be upset.

Well last night he decided a joke about my new "haircut" downstairs would be funny in a crowded Denny's. Then when I told him it wasn't funny and repeatedly told him I was not happy, etc.. he continued to tell me I had no reason to be mad because it was simply a "joke". No apology, nothing. Ever. So I continued to not talk to him the rest of that meal, or even in our walmart trip that followed, until we got home. Then I ripped him a new one and told him that wasn't cool, etc. Then he told me I still had no reason to be mad. Then I snipped a remark and he screamed he didn't want to talk about it, so I exited the room and went into the bedroom and there I stayed.

He never came to bed, he never apologized. He slept on the bed in the living room and was already gone before I woke up.

I'm honestly sick of standing up for myself to only have him get mad at me. I'm pretty much done with this, this has to change or I can't deal with this. We're great when we're not fighting. But when we get in a rut, he refuses to consider people's / my feelings when he says or does anything.